I think it’s pretty likely that my wife will get custody of the kids. If I divorce her, how much time will I get with my children?
The court will ultimately make that decision based upon what it deems in the best interests of your children. In general, however, courts rely on a standard possession order that gives you vacation time in the summer, half of all holidays, and every other weekend. You may be able to ask for more than this order, and your chances of getting it are greatly improved if you 1) have a lawyer; and 2) can prove you are active in your children’s lives.